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Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Love in the 21st Century

Our eyes met across a crowded net... We found ourselves finishing each other's instant messages... She's got her own login account on my PC...
I'm in lo...


Yeah I know, that sounds really false and superficial. Online dating is, perhaps rightfully, looked on as somewhat pathetic.

I did meet Jane online, but because it was first via our respective blogs; and then via some tentative emails that were agenda-less and friendly; and then loads of real-life meetings; at no point has it felt like an "online" relationship.

If the Internet hadn't existed we'd never have met, probably. But then again, if the Internet hadn't existed I wouldn't be the type of tranny (or the type of person) that I am today. Over the last decade or so, the internet has shaped my life in numerous ways, nearly all positive.

They say that the jet engine shrank the world, but the world still seemed a big empty place when I was growing up a child of the jet age. If jet travel shrank the world, then the internet miniaturized it. All of a sudden the whole world was in a box in the corner of the room.

There were other trannies there, and all of a sudden rather than the drip drip of tranny culture I'd been subject to, I was encountering a deluge. I learnt from the Internet, among other things, how to cope with being a tranny and not feel wrong and dirty.

Once that was sorted, I could use it as a strength not a weakness. Through the internet I started making new friends, both tranny and straight. One friend has turned out to be very special indeed.

...I'm in love. :-)

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Michelle Faith  congrats to both of you. I met my wife on the net 5 years ago.
I totally agree with you again on the shrinking world and how it has helped tranny culture.
Some people have, it should be said, been able to bring such a great light to tranny culture, you and the rest of the UK Angels are on top of that list.
Congrats again, Ihope you love lasts a lifetime. 
April Angell  (...determined to make this an Alpha-Tranny contest...) Well, I met my ex-wife on Usenet, 10 years ago (rec.music.gdead - as it happens). Nowadays, I dont think I could physically move with out having to login - is this a bad thing? 
Rachel  Two of my friends met and married facilitated through the Internet so what the hell, you still gotta meet 'n "get on" and there's nothing virtual in that! 
Siobhan Curran  Pish ;) I've been "getting it on" on the internet for years 
Jessica  well! when i was 16 i spent a year talking to a married ex hooker with two kids from michigan, then she left her husband and came over here with her two kids! we got it on for a while, my mum was a bit horrified, then immigration started chasing her and she fled the country leaving a £1k hotel bill and i never heard from her again! That was the start of my love affair with the internet, but i actually met my current t*girlfriend in real life before we ever spoke online.

All the best to you two bex! i've never seen you so happy in all the time i've known you :) xxxx 
Kat  Nope, I still prefer a crowded dancefloor, a few 'jazz peanuts' and a killer chat up line anytime, whilst trying to focus and keep all four limbs co-ordinated.

May I recommned a celebratory tune - "Big Love" by Pete Heller. 
Tilda J  I feel the same way about the tranny world. It's absolutely not acceptable here, but in the net world... There are tons of us out there. The internet is what helped me to come to accept me, and to just relax after 15 years of represion and come out to my wife. (Who is 'absolutly fabulous' about it all. {Yes, I love the show})

Thanks for being there all! 
Lana  Same here, Ive met lots of real nice online friends, lots of who Ive met since, even in Italy. Havent actually hooked up with any as in partner-wise but would have if it had of worked out that way.
Now Im a net junkie but Ive also learned a lot and had good support from people on the net. 
Lana  Oh oops sorry, forgot to add congratulations to you both :) 
Jane  I love you too sweetie.

Now we got the soppy bit over I would like to say that I think that society is a bit down on on-line dating and so forth. It's just another way of meeting people. It has the sleezy reputation because we have all heard of married men pretending that they are single and the 30 stone teenage hillbilly in Arkansas called Bubba pretending to be a 20 something sex kitten in Stockholm called Ingrid. Most of this is urban myth I would guess. You get enough freaks and creeps in the nightclubs and pubs.

But I do agree with Bex because we met through the blog and chatty emails it doesn't didn't feel like an on-line relationship just feels natural :-) 
Charlotte  How sweet!

Now the saccharine bit is over can normal service be resumed please???

Only kidding....congrats you two

:) 
Becky  LOL, agreed Charlotte. I'll ease off on the sickly stuff before I get forced to write "contains a source of phenylalanine" on my blog entries. ;-) 
Michelle  aw how lovely and a big hug to both of you. as my business is technology, i strongly believe in the 'net and lets just say you can spend a fortune on dating a few or very little finding the true one on the 'net - i made the mistake with dateline...loadsa cash for no results, but a circle of very very good friends for free and hopefully one day my dream partner too.
I hope one day I will meet you both to say congratulations. 
Julie Budd  Congrats to all three of you.
xx 
Karol Cross  Lovely! 

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