Love in the 21st Century
Our eyes met across a crowded net... We found ourselves finishing each other's instant messages... She's got her own login account on my PC...
I'm in lo...
I'm in lo...
Yeah I know, that sounds really false and superficial. Online dating is, perhaps rightfully, looked on as somewhat pathetic.
I did meet Jane online, but because it was first via our respective blogs; and then via some tentative emails that were agenda-less and friendly; and then loads of real-life meetings; at no point has it felt like an "online" relationship.
If the Internet hadn't existed we'd never have met, probably. But then again, if the Internet hadn't existed I wouldn't be the type of tranny (or the type of person) that I am today. Over the last decade or so, the internet has shaped my life in numerous ways, nearly all positive.
They say that the jet engine shrank the world, but the world still seemed a big empty place when I was growing up a child of the jet age. If jet travel shrank the world, then the internet miniaturized it. All of a sudden the whole world was in a box in the corner of the room.
There were other trannies there, and all of a sudden rather than the drip drip of tranny culture I'd been subject to, I was encountering a deluge. I learnt from the Internet, among other things, how to cope with being a tranny and not feel wrong and dirty.
Once that was sorted, I could use it as a strength not a weakness. Through the internet I started making new friends, both tranny and straight. One friend has turned out to be very special indeed.
...I'm in love. :-)
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I totally agree with you again on the shrinking world and how it has helped tranny culture.
Some people have, it should be said, been able to bring such a great light to tranny culture, you and the rest of the UK Angels are on top of that list.
Congrats again, Ihope you love lasts a lifetime.
All the best to you two bex! i've never seen you so happy in all the time i've known you :) xxxx
May I recommned a celebratory tune - "Big Love" by Pete Heller.
Thanks for being there all!
Now Im a net junkie but Ive also learned a lot and had good support from people on the net.
Now we got the soppy bit over I would like to say that I think that society is a bit down on on-line dating and so forth. It's just another way of meeting people. It has the sleezy reputation because we have all heard of married men pretending that they are single and the 30 stone teenage hillbilly in Arkansas called Bubba pretending to be a 20 something sex kitten in Stockholm called Ingrid. Most of this is urban myth I would guess. You get enough freaks and creeps in the nightclubs and pubs.
But I do agree with Bex because we met through the blog and chatty emails it doesn't didn't feel like an on-line relationship just feels natural :-)
Now the saccharine bit is over can normal service be resumed please???
Only kidding....congrats you two
:)
I hope one day I will meet you both to say congratulations.
xx
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